It sure has been a long time hasn't it?

What has changed? Nothing of significance I would assume.
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What do people all around the world seek once they reach a certain point in their life? Companionship? Money? A sense of security? A sense of purpose?

Well as it depends on the individual and one cannot predict what a person wants truly, I would like to talk about companionship.
We all seek companionship in many forms, friends, family, lover, girlfriend,boyfriend, well you get the idea.

When one is alone, what do you want most? Someone to be there with you, someone to talk to, to be needed and wanted for your company, that gives us a sense of purpose and belonging. Knowing that someone out there acknowledges your existence and appreciates it.

Why do people say they don't mind being alone? These people often distract themselves from the reality of their lonesome by doing things that are insignificant and mean little.

But at the end of the day, when they lay down onto their beds, they will all wonder about their day, was it purposeful? Was it fulfilling? They all wished they had someone to be with or talk to.

Everyone has friends for sure, the number does not matter, but would they be there forever?
Are you really content with friends that you just causally talk to, not being able to share you inner feelings or opinions?

They say that's what your family is for, but there are just certain things you can't share with your family, at the end of the day, they are still human. Just because they are your family doesn't make them more understanding or more caring than anyone else, it becomes more of a obligation and necessity than because they want to.

I seek companionship often, to find people who understood and have a perspective on things are questioned when things should be questioned. These people make a difference in my life and if only more of such people existed.

When a guy goes for a girl, people say the guy is lustful and there is only one thing in his mind, sex. That may be true in a few cases but that doesn't mean besides the sex we are not interested in anything else about the girl, if we only cared about the sex we would be fucking every girl that gave us the green light.

Personally I always felt a girlfriend should also be a friend, best friend, and girlfriend. After all, the term "Girlfriend" is but a title, it does not mean because you and your partner have "officially" become boyfriend or girlfriend you would immediately have a heightened level of understanding and care for the other person.

People mistake such titles as a form of showing people we are close and we understand each other. Do you? I've seen countless couples who get together and claim they are together now when i clearly see a lack of understanding with each other.

An impulsive act of trying to have someone to call upon in your time of lonesome perhaps, but when something happens that over time each other's "true colors" start to emerge and if you are not prepared or are not able to understand, conflicts of interests will cause the relation to change into something else.
Something that neither one would have expected or foreseen due to their impulsive act of "getting together".

This kind of relationships has hence set the mindset of people into believing never to rush into a relationship. It may be true in many cases but what about the handful of people who has an higher level of emotion and logic? Should they suffer the same fate of the lesser beings? Why should they be treated the same and not given a fair chance to show what they can truly offer?

It is something no one can change but I felt people should realize people like that exist who can be trusted and they would understand. Not everyone can perceive things easily and view them from varying perspective but if you do come to find someone like that, hopefully you would come to keep them by your side as a friend or more.

In affairs of the heart, stay composed and rational. And you will never regret any decision you make. Think and feel before you act.